Sunday, August 26, 2007
hmmm... ? or ?
given the choice, who will you go for (if you can't have both)? the one you love or the one who loves you? most of my friends answered the former. call me selfish, but as of this very moment, i think i'd go for the latter. don't get me wrong... if i can have both, then by all means... :) but maybe i just got tired of waiting for the one i love that i'd now probably opt for the one who loves me ...
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the first time i was asked that question (remember our yearbook?) i actually answered "the one who loves me".. hehehe =)
more posts! where are the rants? hehehe =D
i agree, 'the one who loves me'. i think it's easier to fall in love with someone who already loves you than to wait for someone who doesn't even know you're waiting.
erika: yeah i remember... hmmm.. have to find that cd (un sa yearbook) i just want to know what i answered back then :)
aimee: so correct!!!
hi!
pretty tough question. of course i can only answer this assuming this is purely hypothetical :D but i guess i would say the former. then again, like i said, pretty tough question.
ehehe... i used to have that belief.. owel...
i used to think that the answer to this question depends on gender. men usually go for the one they love, women usually settle for the one who loves them--of course, this is only because of what the society allows them to do. men can try and "win the hearts" of the women who would settle for them without looking bad, women apparently can't. then again, not everyone is like everyone else..
I guess unrequited love is love in its most electrifying form...so i go for the one i need and love.
iris: you're right about that. men do have "advantages" when it comes to that area. the norm limits us with what we can and can't do. i know i'm supposed to go for what i want but well... i just can't... too much of a coward for that. :)
rebirthproject: remember when we had a talk on life outside of work and briefly touched on topics concerning love? i don't know how but it kind of made me realize a few things... thus the change in belief :D
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